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The Art of Flirting

bisht — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 09:54:45 +0000

Did you ever see a Tarzan flick? Gotta love it! Poor Jane didn’t have time to flirt with Tarzan, at least, not until after he had successfully demolished an entire tribe, wrestled an alligator and made his famous war cry. Even then, poor Tarzan didn’t quite understand it when she lowered her lashes slightly and gave a secret little smile to him.

Flirting. Oh, but there is definitely an art to it.

I recently did an online quiz on flirting. I don’t know how I ever managed to get married. My score was in the negative to 10 points! Of course, it has been so many years since I last flirted that maybe I have forgotten how to flirt. Yes! That is the answer to my pitiful score. Why should I have to know how to flirt anymore? I have the man I want. Still, it galls me to know I did so poorly but I will get over it.

As a writer though, don’t I need to know how to let my heroine flirt? Of course I do, if that is part of her personality. Flirting can be overt, subtle or even subconscious. Some women don’t even know when they are doing it. They are natural at it. But after doing the quiz, I realized that flirting has definitely changed over the years. Especially in the past ten years.

The basic principle is the same, but a few of the techniques have become different. Two-thirds of women make the initial contact. Here are the strategies the online quiz recommended. I hope you print this because if your heroine is anything like me, she is going to need it!

1. Playing hard to get is still the smartest strategy. Men love the chase. 2. Bedroom eyes are considered alluring when the pupils are dilated. Men love big eyes. 3. Smiling at him first. Men feel more comfortable to approach. 4. Dancing alone to music. You are alone and confident. Men like that. 5. Looking at him and flipping your hair. The universal “come nibble my neck” signal. 6. “Accidentally” brushing up against him. Men react like a cat getting stroked. 7. Nodding at him first. Again, the signal that you are willing for them to approach you. 8. Licking your lips during eye contact. Oh, they know what that means and so do you. 9. Dancing with a “geek”. If a man considers you will turn him down, if he sees you dance with a “geek”, he will feel more confident.

Now, I have to tell you patting his buttocks was mentioned. Personally I have never had the nerve to be so bold, and let me assure you I am quite a bold woman. And of all things, rock climbing was considered the best choice for a first-date destination if you really, really, really want to get a guy to fall for you. Not literally, I pray.

So, when considering what your heroine should do to attract her ‘Tarzan’, remember that flirting is an art. I am sure your ‘Jane’ will do well with some of the techniques mentioned above. Just don’t have her patting his buttocks as they are rock climbing.

A Nice Story about Love

bisht — Sun, 10 Aug 2008 13:59:27 +0000

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me.

Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: “You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love.“

This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love…they try to posses it, they demand, they expect… and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you .

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don’t expect.
Advise, but don’t order.
Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring.”

Passing thought… Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away…..

Life is beautiful!!! Live it !!!

love’s story

bisht — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 06:26:36 +0000

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all repaired their boats and left.

Love wanted to persevere until the last possible moment. When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, “Richness, can you take me with you?” Richness answered, “No, I can’t. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you.”
Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel, “Vanity, please help me!” “I can’t help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat.” Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, “Sadness, let me go with you.” “Oh….Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!”

Happiness passed by Love too, but he was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her!

Suddenly, there was a voice, “Come Love, I will take you.” It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went his own way.

Love realizing how much he owed the elder and asked Knowledge, another elder, “Who helped me?” “It was Time,” Knowledge answered. “Time?” asked Love. “But why did Time help me?” Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, “Because, only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is.”

Newton’s laws of LOVE

bisht — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 05:55:00 +0000

First law:

A boy in love with a girl continues to be in love with her and a girl in love with a boy continues to be in love with him, until and unless any external agent(brother or father of the girl) comes into play and breaks the legs of the boy.

Second law:

The rate of change of intensity of love of a girl towards a boy is directly proportional to his bank balance.

Third law:

The force applied while proposing a girl by a boy is equal and opposite to the force applied by the girl while using her sandals.

Universal law:

Love can neither be created nor be destroyed, it can only be transfered from one girlfriend to another girlfriend.

Dating Rules For Women

bisht — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 14:37:04 +0000

Guys, if you don’t like this, tough - look away now.

In another dating article on this site you will find a general set of rules than men should follow when dating. In the same way women have some general rules that they should content with when entering the dating jungle. Now I know everyone is different so don’t take things too seriously here. There has been some controversy over some literature published recently in the USA that sets out in detail the rules a woman should follow to get her guy (or woman). Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider’s 1995 bestseller “The Rules,” explains how women should play hard if they want to get their guy. I can understand why some groups would be hostile but the fact is when we grow up there are a predefined set of dating rules. All that happens is that we forget most of them after the age of 21 and then find we need to relearn them.

I wish there weren’t any general rules and we just got on with it but courtship is a ritual; there are things that we make happen that excite stimulate, create interest, confound etc. Dating is a long test of compatibility. Are we perfectly matched? If we just threw ourselves together then the chances of long term happiness may be reduced. And yet previous generations managed to succeed on a far less complex courtship criteria list. Many arranged marriages work too interestingly.

In every society there are a predefined set of social rules we follow, from the way and timing of eating to the way we behave in public. The issue here is that when women date there are things that can help them be more successful. If we accept that dating is a game then there are rules to that game and winners and losers. If you know the rules in advance it gives you a head start. If men know the rules by which you are playing you may change the rules to suit the situation to keep the man guessing. Men love a challenge so feel free to adapt rule and add them as you feel inclined.

You can separate rules out into two parts, dating and online dating. Both areas have distinct rules that a woman should follow for dating success.

General Dating Rules

Always look great, whatever your income. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick and wearing rags will still turn his head. You have the advantage, you are the woman. Look your best as you could meet a potential Mr. Right anywhere at any time.
Never reveal information you don’t have to. An enigmatic woman drives men wild.
Keep dates brief but your men interested. Less is always more.
Try and stay in shape and involve some fitness regime at a gym. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind.
Let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.
Ensure you receive flowers, if he doesn’t know what a florist is, dump him.
Never ever sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything.
Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a lady’s perogative.
Never be available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.
If he is available Tuesday, you are available Thursday.
Weekend shopping trips with girlfriends are sacred and not available for dates.
Keep your man standing on quicksand by shifting landmarks and goalposts constantly.
Ensure you are a good kisser. Men will walk away if you cannot kiss. Practise on a mirror if you have to.
Never ever talk about previous boyfriends and particularly their prowess in the bedroom. The number of ex boyfriends is your business only.
Never pre suppose anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking
If any man shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity run like the wind. Life is too short for boys.
If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace dump him
Never talk too much about your father and how your date measures up in comparison.
Never ever come across as too available or too desperate, he will run a mile. He is the one doing the chasing remember.
If the guy in the corner is gorgeous go and get him and create the need in him for you. Never wait for men to come to you because you may watch him leave with someone else.
You may well have all the bodily functions of a man, just try not to demonstrate them early on.
If you are wanting a child, don’t mention it on the first few dates.
Never ever criticize his mother unless you want to remain single.

Online Dating Rules

Always let them come to you, don’t chase via email
Block anyone who annoys you instantly
Place the best & most vampish photo up you can find
Don’t reply to instant messages with clever opening lines
Remain aloof and let yourself be chased
Always reply to emails at least 3 days after receipt
Never provide you true email or phone details to the man
Always date safely and protect yourself at every turn
Make sure your login name is stunning and sexy as well as enigmatic
Do not login for hours on end. Short, rapid visits are best
Do not assume the man you are talking to is destitute or sad
Never ever reply to emails at weekends, wait until a weekday
Never state how good your sexual performance is in your profile
If you don’t want to date married men spell it out in your profile
A man who doesn’t reply to your email within 3 days should be ignored
Make sure your humor levels come across in text
Do not chat to hundreds of men at once, the delay in replying is a dead giveaway and your Mr. Right will be off.
Don’t even think about misrepresenting your size or description. They will find out.
Come across as cool and sophisticated for best results

Always remember ladies that you are a sexy desirable woman and the world is your oyster. Always let men do the chasing and always let yourself be the chooser. Always stay safe and never risk yourself for the sake of attending a date. Always use a safe dating website like LoveBrowser.com

10 Most Romantic Tips

bisht — Sun, 13 Jul 2008 07:06:50 +0000

1. Spread rose petals all over the bedroom.

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2. What could be more classic than a fine gold locket with your photo inside? (Maybe a photo of the two of you.)

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3. Bring home one small, unexpected gift each week.

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4. Write a classic, romantic, passionate, handwritten, heartfelt love letter. Most adults haven’t written a love letter since high school. (Why not? Have we lost our youthful idealism, or have we just gotten lazy?)

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5. When traveling, give your partner a bouquet of roses; one rose for each day that you’ll be away. Attach a note that says something like this: “These three roses represent the three days I’ll be away from you. They also symbolize the love, joy, and laughter we share together.”

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6.Say “I love you” at least one times a day.

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7. Guys: Surprise her by performing one of her chores for her. (And not something easy like carrying the groceries in from the car, but something that requires some time and effort — like cooking all the meals over a weekend, or cleaning the entire house.)

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8. Ladies: Send him a letter sealed with a kiss. (Use your reddest lipstick.)

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9. Hold hands.

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10. On your yearly romantic checklist, make plans for Valentine’s Day — well in advance!

What, Do You Think Tough Girls Don’t Cry Too?

bisht — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 05:22:42 +0000

Don’t think that behind our tough girl image we aren’t still girls. Do you think our hearts don’t break also? Do you think we don’t need your shoulders to cry on… too?

Behind the woman drinking shots with you, behind the woman paying for your lap dance at the strip club, behind the woman talking shit to you while beating your ass at poker is a woman who is just as vunerable as the next chick. Behind our tough girl act is still a girl who wants to be loved and cherished and told how beautiful she is like every other girl.

We lean over toilets and purge the pain like other women. We stand in the mirror and find all the little things we hate about ourselves to bear witness to the pain that we feel inside like every other woman. We drink away the pain behind smiling faces and we date men who are wrong for us. We forget to take our pills and pray that we won’t be pregnant by Not The One as we stand in our bathrooms holding pee stained sticks.

Basically, we fuck up too.

We want to be the prettiest. And even when we are The Prettiest Ones we wish to be prettier, funnier, cooler, smarter, just anything more than we are now. Because like other women we think something must be missing, or our lives would be perfect. And even though others look at us and think that we have it it all under control, we know deep down that something is missing.

While we may never watch Lifetime and you’ll never find us in the Chick Lit section, we worry about breast cancer and our reproductive time clocks too. And even when we say we don’t want husbands and kids, sometimes we stand in line behind that shopping cart with the happy family and unruly kid who is about to steal something and secretly think, “I want that some day”. But we brush those thoughts out of our minds in favor of reading the latest gossip. Because other people’s problems are easier to deal with than our own.

We cry and hurt like every other girl. And I cry too. And I need that shoulder to cry on. And even when I say I am ok, I may not be. I just find it hard to ask for the things that I really want… like everyone else. Like every other woman. The Mad Dater - Later kids

Meeting Women The Importance of Focusing to Seduce Women

bisht — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 15:35:43 +0000

Let us get one thing straight, without focus your chances to seduce women is a pretty low one.
What you think about and focus on is, inevitably, what you are going to get out of life. You have to think about new ideas, new goals and new women, or your mind and behavior will exhibit the old ideas, patterns and people.

If you don’t focus on and visualize the woman of your dreams and imagine ways of meeting her all the time, then you’ll probably end up meeting someone who resembles your last girlfriend, or worse!

Visualize how you’re going to seduce women before you even meet women.
Avoid thinking about what you don’t want. If you think about not wanting a boring lazy woman, and you focus on that, chances are you’ll be meeting more of them than any other kind of woman.

You must FOCUS on what you WANT in order to GET what you WANT. This applies to all aspects of your life not just women. If you just focus on obstacles you come across, instead of your ultimate goals, you’ll continue to have setbacks! You have to focus and think about what you want all the time.

Your First Impression

Within three minutes of meeting a woman, she woman will evaluate you, judge you and stereotype you by your first impression. Despite this being an unreasonable way to judge a person, women do this to almost every man she meets.

Make those first crucial minutes work FOR you, not against you. What is communicated and observed during your first few minutes meeting a woman will dictate your future relationship with that woman: you may become friends, lovers, or possibly remain strangers.

We are all guilty of judging others based solely on their physical appearances, and our personal prejudices and shortcomings. As shallow as that may be, it’s true. You must use this judgment period to your advantage. This time is your most valuable opportunity to portray your most attractive qualities. The best way to make your first impression work for you is to adjust your physical appearance for greatest results.
Keep in mind focus is all it takes if your goal is to meet and seduce women.

what girls love ?

bisht — Sat, 31 May 2008 16:21:42 +0000

1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly

are you remembering this?

6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when
you’re with your friends

keep reading

11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more,
deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her
more than you, deny it. fight back
and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends.
it makes her feel loved

Are you thinking about someone?

16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her shes beautiful not ***y!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!

…20 you need to show her you mean it too

21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help

we might deny it but we acutally like
and kinda want you to get us things

26-don’t lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the
morning and tell her have a
good day, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever
she needs you, & even when
she doesn’t need you, just be there
so she’ll know that she can always count on you

are you still reading this you better be its important

31. Hold her close when she’s cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek;
(it will give her the hint that you want to kiss then).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her
and then she will automatically put her
head on your shoulder, then lean in
and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If shes upset, comfort her

remember this next time you are with her

36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED

41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.

you’ll never know when she needs just a lil more love

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