Dating Rules For Women

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In another dating article on this site you will find a general set of rules than men should follow when dating. In the same way women have some general rules that they should content with when entering the dating jungle. Now I know everyone is different so don’t take things too seriously here. There has been some controversy over some literature published recently in the USA that sets out in detail the rules a woman should follow to get her guy (or woman). Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider’s 1995 bestseller “The Rules,” explains how women should play hard if they want to get their guy. I can understand why some groups would be hostile but the fact is when we grow up there are a predefined set of dating rules. All that happens is that we forget most of them after the age of 21 and then find we need to relearn them.

I wish there weren’t any general rules and we just got on with it but courtship is a ritual; there are things that we make happen that excite stimulate, create interest, confound etc. Dating is a long test of compatibility. Are we perfectly matched? If we just threw ourselves together then the chances of long term happiness may be reduced. And yet previous generations managed to succeed on a far less complex courtship criteria list. Many arranged marriages work too interestingly.

In every society there are a predefined set of social rules we follow, from the way and timing of eating to the way we behave in public. The issue here is that when women date there are things that can help them be more successful. If we accept that dating is a game then there are rules to that game and winners and losers. If you know the rules in advance it gives you a head start. If men know the rules by which you are playing you may change the rules to suit the situation to keep the man guessing. Men love a challenge so feel free to adapt rule and add them as you feel inclined.

You can separate rules out into two parts, dating and online dating. Both areas have distinct rules that a woman should follow for dating success.

General Dating Rules

  • Always look great, whatever your income. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick and wearing rags will still turn his head. You have the advantage, you are the woman. Look your best as you could meet a potential Mr. Right anywhere at any time.

  • Never reveal information you don’t have to. An enigmatic woman drives men wild.

  • Keep dates brief but your men interested. Less is always more.

  • Try and stay in shape and involve some fitness regime at a gym. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind.

  • Let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.

  • Ensure you receive flowers, if he doesn’t know what a florist is, dump him.

  • Never ever sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything.

  • Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a lady’s perogative.

  • Never be available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.

  • If he is available Tuesday, you are available Thursday.

  • Weekend shopping trips with girlfriends are sacred and not available for dates.

  • Keep your man standing on quicksand by shifting landmarks and goalposts constantly.

  • Ensure you are a good kisser. Men will walk away if you cannot kiss. Practise on a mirror if you have to.

  • Never ever talk about previous boyfriends and particularly their prowess in the bedroom. The number of ex boyfriends is your business only.

  • Never pre suppose anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking

  • If any man shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity run like the wind. Life is too short for boys.

  • If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace dump him

  • Never talk too much about your father and how your date measures up in comparison.

  • Never ever come across as too available or too desperate, he will run a mile. He is the one doing the chasing remember.

  • If the guy in the corner is gorgeous go and get him and create the need in him for you. Never wait for men to come to you because you may watch him leave with someone else.

  • You may well have all the bodily functions of a man, just try not to demonstrate them early on.

  • If you are wanting a child, don’t mention it on the first few dates.

  • Never ever criticize his mother unless you want to remain single.

Online Dating Rules

  • Always let them come to you, don’t chase via email

  • Block anyone who annoys you instantly

  • Place the best & most vampish photo up you can find

  • Don’t reply to instant messages with clever opening lines

  • Remain aloof and let yourself be chased

  • Always reply to emails at least 3 days after receipt

  • Never provide you true email or phone details to the man

  • Always date safely and protect yourself at every turn

  • Make sure your login name is stunning and sexy as well as enigmatic

  • Do not login for hours on end. Short, rapid visits are best

  • Do not assume the man you are talking to is destitute or sad

  • Never ever reply to emails at weekends, wait until a weekday

  • Never state how good your sexual performance is in your profile

  • If you don’t want to date married men spell it out in your profile

  • A man who doesn’t reply to your email within 3 days should be ignored

  • Make sure your humor levels come across in text

  • Do not chat to hundreds of men at once, the delay in replying is a dead giveaway and your Mr. Right will be off.

  • Don’t even think about misrepresenting your size or description. They will find out.

  • Come across as cool and sophisticated for best results

Always remember ladies that you are a sexy desirable woman and the world is your oyster. Always let men do the chasing and always let yourself be the chooser. Always stay safe and never risk yourself for the sake of attending a date. Always use a safe dating website like LoveBrowser.com

Add comment July 20, 2008

10 Most Romantic Tips

1. Spread rose petals all over the bedroom.

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2. What could be more classic than a fine gold locket with your photo inside? (Maybe a photo of the two of you.)

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3. Bring home one small, unexpected gift each week.

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4. Write a classic, romantic, passionate, handwritten, heartfelt love letter. Most adults haven’t written a love letter since high school. (Why not? Have we lost our youthful idealism, or have we just gotten lazy?)

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5. When traveling, give your partner a bouquet of roses; one rose for each day that you’ll be away. Attach a note that says something like this: “These three roses represent the three days I’ll be away from you. They also symbolize the love, joy, and laughter we share together.”

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6.Say “I love you” at least one times a day.

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7. Guys: Surprise her by performing one of her chores for her. (And not something easy like carrying the groceries in from the car, but something that requires some time and effort — like cooking all the meals over a weekend, or cleaning the entire house.)

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8. Ladies: Send him a letter sealed with a kiss. (Use your reddest lipstick.)

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9. Hold hands.

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10. On your yearly romantic checklist, make plans for Valentine’s Day — well in advance!

Add comment July 13, 2008

What, Do You Think Tough Girls Don’t Cry Too?

Don’t think that behind our tough girl image we aren’t still girls. Do you think our hearts don’t break also? Do you think we don’t need your shoulders to cry on… too? Tank GirlTank Girl

Behind the woman drinking shots with you, behind the woman paying for your lap dance at the strip club, behind the woman talking shit to you while beating your ass at poker is a woman who is just as vunerable as the next chick. Behind our tough girl act is still a girl who wants to be loved and cherished and told how beautiful she is like every other girl.

We lean over toilets and purge the pain like other women. We stand in the mirror and find all the little things we hate about ourselves to bear witness to the pain that we feel inside like every other woman. We drink away the pain behind smiling faces and we date men who are wrong for us. We forget to take our pills and pray that we won’t be pregnant by Not The One as we stand in our bathrooms holding pee stained sticks.

Basically, we fuck up too.

We want to be the prettiest. And even when we are The Prettiest Ones we wish to be prettier, funnier, cooler, smarter, just anything more than we are now. Because like other women we think something must be missing, or our lives would be perfect. And even though others look at us and think that we have it it all under control, we know deep down that something is missing.

While we may never watch Lifetime and you’ll never find us in the Chick Lit section, we worry about breast cancer and our reproductive time clocks too. And even when we say we don’t want husbands and kids, sometimes we stand in line behind that shopping cart with the happy family and unruly kid who is about to steal something and secretly think, “I want that some day”. But we brush those thoughts out of our minds in favor of reading the latest gossip. Because other people’s problems are easier to deal with than our own.

We cry and hurt like every other girl. And I cry too. And I need that shoulder to cry on. And even when I say I am ok, I may not be. I just find it hard to ask for the things that I really want… like everyone else. Like every other woman. The Mad Dater - Later kids

Add comment July 4, 2008

Meeting Women The Importance of Focusing to Seduce Women

Let us get one thing straight, without focus your chances to seduce women is a pretty low one.
What you think about and focus on is, inevitably, what you are going to get out of life. You have to think about new ideas, new goals and new women, or your mind and behavior will exhibit the old ideas, patterns and people.

If you don’t focus on and visualize the woman of your dreams and imagine ways of meeting her all the time, then you’ll probably end up meeting someone who resembles your last girlfriend, or worse!

Visualize how you’re going to seduce women before you even meet women.
Avoid thinking about what you don’t want. If you think about not wanting a boring lazy woman, and you focus on that, chances are you’ll be meeting more of them than any other kind of woman.

You must FOCUS on what you WANT in order to GET what you WANT. This applies to all aspects of your life not just women. If you just focus on obstacles you come across, instead of your ultimate goals, you’ll continue to have setbacks! You have to focus and think about what you want all the time.

Your First Impression

Within three minutes of meeting a woman, she woman will evaluate you, judge you and stereotype you by your first impression. Despite this being an unreasonable way to judge a person, women do this to almost every man she meets.

Make those first crucial minutes work FOR you, not against you. What is communicated and observed during your first few minutes meeting a woman will dictate your future relationship with that woman: you may become friends, lovers, or possibly remain strangers.

We are all guilty of judging others based solely on their physical appearances, and our personal prejudices and shortcomings. As shallow as that may be, it’s true. You must use this judgment period to your advantage. This time is your most valuable opportunity to portray your most attractive qualities. The best way to make your first impression work for you is to adjust your physical appearance for greatest results.
Keep in mind focus is all it takes if your goal is to meet and seduce women.

1 comment June 15, 2008

what girls love ?

1-touch their waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss them slowly

are you remembering this?

6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when
you’re with your friends

keep reading

11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more,
deny it. fight back
15-when her friends say i love her
more than you, deny it. fight back
and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends.
it makes her feel loved

Are you thinking about someone?

16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
19-tell her shes beautiful not ***y!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!

…20 you need to show her you mean it too

21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. you buy HER stuff
23-tell her what feels good
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff. small things can still help

we might deny it but we acutally like
and kinda want you to get us things

26-don’t lie to her
27-dont cheat on her
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the
morning and tell her have a
good day, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever
she needs you, & even when
she doesn’t need you, just be there
so she’ll know that she can always count on you

are you still reading this you better be its important

31. Hold her close when she’s cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek;
(it will give her the hint that you want to kiss then).
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her
and then she will automatically put her
head on your shoulder, then lean in
and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If shes upset, comfort her

(more…)

1 comment May 31, 2008

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Add comment May 14, 2008

KISSING TECHNIQUES

The first kiss is the clincher. You’ve been locking eyes all night, even spun each other across the dance floor, and now as the song ends you pull her close for that first kiss. Will it be fireworks? Will it be a dud?

Kaput. Yep, that was a dud.

How can you guarantee that the chemistry will happen when you lock lips for the first time?

You can never guarantee anything in life or love, but you can certainly up the chances of a favorable response by honing up on your kissing technique. Fabulous kissers aren’t as common as you may think. This chapter will tell you some of the common pitfalls and give you some tips to develop those lips women will die for.

1. Practice, practice, practice.

If you’ve never kissed anyone before, you may not have an intuitive grasp of great kissing technique. Many people—male and female alike—begin their kissing careers as children, imaging that their pillow was their desired partner and covered it with kisses.

Needless to say, real lips are a good deal different from cotton fabric. Some people practice their kissing on ripe fruit, like sensuous, squishy mangoes. Lest this give you freaky “American Pie” flashbacks, remember that kissing practice is healthy and not at all abnormal.

2. Practice good mouth hygiene.

You may think your mouth is clean as a whistle, but a dentist would be able to tell you what you had for breakfast that morning. That’s because the mouth traps food odors more than people realize. If you have onions or garlic for lunch, your date may very well be able to taste it in your kiss that afternoon.

Great kissers know that tasting alcohol, coffee, or food on someone’s breath is a huge turnoff. Make sure you always brush your teeth, floss, and use mouthwash before you go out. Avoid any strongly-flavored food or drink before kissing, and always carry gum or mints just in case.

3. Relax and let yourself go.

Stress, anxiety, and self-consciousness make us awful kissers. If we’re not even sure we like the person we’re kissing, our lips turn tense and unyielding.

You can tell a lot with a kiss. When you’re upset, your lips get tight, and the person you’re kissing can tell. If you’re inexperienced and trying too hard, your kissing partner will be able to notice as well.

So the most important part of kissing is being totally into the person you’re with and wiping all distractions from your mind. Wipe anything from your memory but the moment. Let your inhibitions dissolve (including any self-consciousness about your ability as a kisser) and relax. Sweep her into your arms, and you’ll find yourself naturally kissing like a movie star.

4. Take it slow.

During a first kiss, one of the biggest mistakes you can make is going for it with the full body press. First kisses should be light, short, and soft. When you break away, move her hair away from her eyes with your fingers, then search her eyes to see how she is feeling.

A little eye contact is a powerful thing while kissing. Often, the only way you can see one another is to break the kiss. Yet pulling back gives you an opportunity to see how the other person is doing, reassure one another that you’re both experiencing the same feelings, and allow a change of pace. So, as you’re kissing, take breathers to pause, hold her face in your hands, and search her eyes.

5. Vary your kisses.

If you’ve never kissed this particular girl before, then you don’t know whether she likes her kisses hard or soft, full-mouthed or gentle, on her lips or elsewhere. Your first kissing session should always be exploratory. Start out by keeping your mouth closed and brushing your lips against hers in a rubbing motion. Kiss her very gently, then back off just a fraction; with your lips in such agonizing proximity, just breathe so that she can feel the warmth of your breath against her skin. If she’s quite responsive, try upping the intensity with full-mouthed kisses. Don’t feel bad about having to break away to breathe or swallow saliva, as she probably has to do the same. Try sucking on her lower lip or running a finger along her jaw or the back of her neck as you kiss. If she’s still responsive, then—and only then—should you try a French kiss. Lick your way along her lips before trying to insert your tongue so that she has the chance to decide whether she’s up for it or not. For some women, French kissing is almost as intimate as intercourse. If she breaks away at that point, don’t try anything further.

The important idea here is to vary the kinds of kisses you use until you find the one that turns her on. This also keeps kissing from being boring.

6. Use your hands.

Use your hands to lightly trace the line of her jaw or clench hair at her nape. Run your fingers through her hair or caress her shoulder. Rest one hand on her lower back, and pull her to you. Remember that kissing should stimulate all the senses, but don’t forget Rule #7.

7. Never use the kiss as an excuse to do other things.

The first time you kiss a woman, enjoy the kissing for its own sake, NOT just as a prelude to going to bed with her. Just because she’s given you a kiss doesn’t mean that she’s given you permission to sleep with her, so DON’T try to take it to the bedroom from the moment your liplock breaks. A kiss should never be used as an excuse to touch her anywhere she doesn’t want to be touched. Avoid the breasts and buttocks unless you’re sure that she wants your hands to wander there.

8. End with a cuddle or hug.

The problem with kisses is that they often end too soon. Extend the moment by enfolding her in your arms for a hug or giving her a cuddle. You might want to break the intensity of the mood by being playful or silly or even tickling her. A little laughter will make her feel even more bonded and connected to you, and she’ll want to see you again fast.

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1 comment April 16, 2008

Why Friendship and what is need of friendship

Why we need friendships when we have a lovely life in this world.
Why we need friends in our life.

Well friends, this is a tedious question to answer. Lets see each questions.

Why we need friendships?

Friendships are the gift to the man kind. The relation which we get in this world are blood related. But the only relationships which doesnot related to blood is friendship. Friendship has many forms and shapes. It is like water. If we pour the water into a jug it takes the shape of jug. if you pour the same water into a bowl it takes the shape o bowl. Sameway friendships will take a different shapes and sizes according to our heart. Friendship gives pleasure to human beings. Where there is friendship then there will not be any sorrow. When you see a child laughing you will forget your sorrows for a second, sameway when you are with a friend you forget your sorrows.

Friendships crosses boundries

The world is rotating smoothly because of the friendly hearts in the world. it crosses boundries and share a mutual bonding of love. Friendships will take care of this entire world from problems. If we are friends then our countries will, when our countries are friends then there is not need of weapons. So take weapon named friendship and love and conqure the world with love.

Friendships saves life

Trusted true friendships never makes others down. it helps a lot to make friends to comeup from the situation. Friendships never expect anything in return for all its offering. It saves life without looking into situation.

Lets get friendship and let’s BEPenfriends.

Why we need friends & friendships?

Friends comes with friendships, They are the channel of love and affection. Friends are like child’s heart which doesn’t know wrong thinkings. When there is a friend with us we feel secure, happy, huge support, and comfortable which you can’t get from others.

So Lets get some real friends in this world. and lets Be Friends.

Add comment April 9, 2008

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